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A Letter To The Woman Fearful Of Miscarriage

Hi my dear friend, I’m so glad you’re here.

If we were having coffee today, I would tell you how as my miscarriage has come to an end, I’ve struggled with so much fear.

Are you struggling with fear of being pregnant, having a miscarriage or never becoming a mother?

MAN do I understand those fears/ Fear of the future, fear of having to experience this again, fear of your next cycle, fear that your life won’t be what your soul longs for, fearing that your future just won’t... be okay… won’t be what you long for and have prayed for?

You’re not alone, I understand. 💛

IN THE MIDDLE OF YOUR FEAR OVERTAKING YOU- YOU CAN EXPERIENCE FREEDOM.

Here’s the process I am clinging to, based in pursuing God, that will help bring you freedom from your FEAR:⁠

- 😑 What is your fear? Name it out loud. ⁠BE SPECIFIC, NOT generic. God is a SPECIFIC God and wants to bring you SPECIFIC freedom!
- 🗣 Ask yourself, “what is the worst thing that could happen?”. Speak it. ⁠
- 🕊 Now ask, “How will I handle it knowing that God LOVES ME PERFECTLY?”⁠
- 🙌🏻 Cling to the position of Faith by trusting in the Lord. Don’t lean on your own understanding. Actively trust that the Lord is going to see you through it. Cling to the truth that He is in control & He LOVES YOU. He is FOR you. Let His grace be sufficient. Allow His power to take over in your weakness. *1 John 4:18*⁠

Fear is a liar. Friend, you no longer have to listen to it. 🙌🏻

Allow God to do what Hs does best by clinging to His Truth instead of fear. Because it’s o n l y HIS perfect love that casts out fear. Only His name that makes darkness flee & tremble. 👏🏻

I LOVE YOU.

If you need a spiritual mentor during this season, join my upcoming Mentorship Cohort!

xo,

Lanissa